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Taking your sex life to the next level can be a little intimidating. In the name of science (and fun), we scoured the internet and consulted with a certified sex and relationship coach, Erika Lemkeand a sexologist Carol Queen to fill all our shortcomings with better recommendations. We’ve tested all of these products ourselves, received rave reviews, and are sharing the ones that are worth your money.
Looking for more emotional products? Check out our full list of Good For You Award winners Here.
Toys
Best External Vibrator: Ballerina Smile Makers
Unlike other clitoral stimulators, The Ballerina once surrounds the entire vulva for extended touch stimulation. It has six speeds and six dynamic pulsation modes. Plus, it’s waterproof, so you can take your single date in the shower.
Best for travel: Maude Vibe Mini
This small vibrator is small but powerful. It has five speeds and a flutter tip for precise and focused external stimulation. It is very smart and small enough to fit in a clutch bag or toiletry bag. This is a great option for beginners.
The best bracelet: Dear hands
There’s a reason these bracelets are winning for the second year in a row. They are made of high quality and soft leather that will not rub or irritate your skin. They are also fully adjustable to accommodate different hand sizes and won’t come apart or come undone.
Best Cock Ring: Loop LBDO
Cock rings aren’t just for… well, cocks. This LBDO ring is a vibrating ring for both partners thanks to its unique ergonomic design. It has a smoother and wider fit to stimulate the vulva during penetration. It is waterproof and quiet. And don’t even get us started on the amazing travel case it comes in.
Best Rabbit Vibrator: Lelo Soraya Wave™
We took a page from Charlotte York’s book and went on the hunt for a rabbit vibrator so good it’s practically addictive. Enter: The Soraya Lelo Wave, a luxe version of the popular versatile vibe. It stimulates both the inside and the outside and is covered in silicone that is almost warm to the touch. Is it an investment? Yes. But is it worth it? Double yes.
Tools
Best Subscription Box: Arya Subscription
Remember those Liebe Zele hands? These are just some of the many tools and toys you can get as an Arya customer. After finishing This quiz is freeYour dedicated concierge will send you a box each month with three items to warm up your activities and interactive guided tours created using science-based methods.
The best massage oil: candle massage oil Dame
If you’re already lighting candles to improve the mood, why not invest in a massage oil? This is one of the Dame pools almost immediately, so you can get to the good part sooner. It comes in three scents: Soft Touch (sandal), Melt Together (green tea, fig and cedar) and Wild Lust (lime leaf and white peach). You’ll also appreciate the slight rim tip for easier pouring.
Best CBD Oil: Foria Awakening Oil with CBD
For an oil with a little more pizzazz, we recommend Foria’s exciting CBD-infused oil. CBD doesn’t get you high, but it does help relieve dryness, increase your sense of touch, and overall comfort. Although it is not compatible with latex condoms, it is safe for oral and hand play and can be repeated as often as you like.
Best Pelvic Floor Massager: Kiwi People’s Pelvic Floor Massager
Sometimes, it’s hard to get in the mood. That’s where Kiwi comes in. This unique and ergonomically designed vibrating pelvic relaxation massager is designed to soothe your muscle tension and arousal, internally and externally. You can choose between a “bubble” or “bubble” vibe and rest easy knowing it was designed by pelvic health experts.
Best Drugstore Lubricant: KY Personal Fluid
Our favorite product has to be KY. You can snag it at CVS, Amazon, or Target for long-lasting pleasure that compliments your natural lubrication. It’s water-based for a light, tacky feel and better glide. Better yet, it’s under $10.
Media and games
Best erotica audio program: Quinn
We love Quinn’s app for a variety of reasons: it’s female-driven, LGBTQ-friendly, and focuses on healthy, inclusive scenarios. You might even find some of your favorite celebrity creators, like Rob Rausch from last season Traitors and Chris Briney of Summer I became beautiful. Try it absolutely free for a week or sign up for less than $10 a month.
Our favorite picks: Intimate by Ita O’Brien
Intimacy can feel…complicated. For a little extra guidance, we refer to it Intimate by Ita O’Brien. It has over 300 pages dedicated to understanding desire, attachment and chemistry. O’Brien is best known for his work as a co-ordinator on some of our favorite scenes in it Ordinary people, Sexual educationand I can destroy you.
Our favorite Steamy reads
We live in a golden age of romance novels. We’ve found that this steamy reading opens up a whole new way to experience pleasure and fantasy, improving our personal love lives in the process. Some of our favorite writers this year? Tessa Bailey, JT Geisinger, Rachel Reed, Nikki Payne, Ali Hazelwood, Ball players, Tia Williams, Elsie Silver, Kennedy Ryanand works of romance novels 831 Stories. For more inspiration, check out our interesting reading list.
Best Date Night Activity: Adventure Challenge
One of our favorite things about this card game is that it can be used by anyone at any stage of their relationship. Whether you want to celebrate date nights with a long-term partner or connect with someone new on a deeper, more sensual level, this card deck fosters connection, all you need to do is set aside a day or night with your partner, pick a coin, and let the zero cards do the rest.
Best conversation starter: Love conversation
We’re never opposed to a good round of quizzes, but if we’re talking awards, we’re giving ours to Love Talk. The 72-card deck is full of thought-provoking questions and encouragement to connect with your partner and closest friends on the deepest level. Recommended for more tips on sex and pleasure Sex talk. Psst…they even come with free condoms.
Menstruation
Best tampons: Viv Organic Cotton Tampons
It’s truly a crime how many organic tampons come in the most inconvenient applicators. Founded by a woman, Viv has found a solution. Their BPA-free applicators are ultra-smooth to slip in, and the tampons themselves are absorbent, toxin-free, and made from 100% organic cotton. The result? A healthier, more Earth-friendly cycle. Because that’s what happens when you let women invent things.
Best pads: Rael Pads
We love Rael pads for their high level of absorbency without feeling like you’re wearing diapers. They are lightweight and breathable, with hidden Leak-Locker technology to prevent leaks. They are non-irritating and dermatologist tested for irritation.
Best Underwear: Knix Era Underwear
For a table that doesn’t feel out of place, we turn to Knix period underwear. Not only are they made of high-quality fabric, but they can also absorb an entire day’s flow (up to 11 super tampons) without shedding. They come in almost every style of underwear (coins included) with varying levels of absorbency and light compression that is comforting rather than restrictive.
Best heating pad: Geniani electric heating pad
This heating pad allows you to switch between three heat levels and switch to each line while contouring, plus it’s machine washable. It automatically shuts off after two hours, so don’t wet it if you fall asleep. It’s great for period pain, back pain, sore muscles, or just relaxing on the couch.
Best cleansing product: Salt XO Yonni pH Balancing Intimate Wash
Think of this balancing wash as an ethereal cleanser for your vagina. The tea tree and aloe-infused formula supports your natural pH level and soothes irritation while killing odor-causing bacteria. If you are someone prone to dryness or yeast infections, this is a must.
Prenatal and postnatal care
Best bra for breastfeeding: Skin-to-skin bras
Any bra that doesn’t feel like a breast is an automatic win in our book, especially this second nursing bra from Hatch. There’s zero metal or hardware involved, just a smooth, stretchy Pima cotton fabric that’s completely machine washable. Pro tip: Their stylist recommends measuring your bust instead of using your maternity bra size for a more accurate fit.
Best Peri Bottle: Frida Mom Peri Bottle
This upside-down cleaning bottle is one of our incredible postpartum picks. It’s gentle enough to prevent pain or irritation, and it’s small and portable enough to throw in your bag. It comes with a travel bag to keep it clean. No wonder hospitals and birthing centers always recommend it.
Best Underwear: Bodily Mesh Undies
These ultra-long boys may be one size fits all, but you’ll feel like they’re designed especially for you. You will feel supported without feeling pressured or restricted. They make wearing even bulky fabrics easier and more comfortable.
Best Pregnancy Pillow: BabyBub Bub Maternity Pillow
We have never seen a pregnancy pillow like this before. Its winged design helps support side sleepers by soothing back and side pain while resting. Even the best choice of sleepers is its adjustable length and the fact that it helps with pregnancy swelling.
Best Stretch Mark Oil: Hatch Oil
All intense hydration, none of the greasy residue. That’s how we describe Hatch’s belly fat in a nutshell. Its quick-drying formula is rich in natural ingredients (like sweet almond oil and grapefruit oil) to reduce the appearance of stretch marks and blemishes. Not to mention it dries really, really fast.
