“If you can solve your problem, what’s the point of worrying? If you can’t solve it, what’s the use of being sad?” – Shantideva, 8th century BC, Indian Buddhist sage
What comes after what? No, it’s the classic acronym for “Who’s on First?” no Comedy mode. Nor is it intended as a tongue-in-cheek pun, like Peter Piper picking peppers or Sally selling seashells on the beach. It is more of a mindset, a change of mind that confuses the question “What if? to “What now?”
What if thinking helps us consider the many possibilities that life presents, from the good to the bad and even the ugly. But thinking about the “what ifs” opens up a storm of worry about all the horrible things that could possibly happen. – Yes, maybe they will fire me. “Yes, I have cancer.” “Yes, the market can crash.”
Yes, practically anything bad is possible when you let your mind wander into the world of the unexpected. However, the negative, even tragic, consequences do not get much attention attention about your deepest fears. So here a Minute therapist a suggestion that can change your frame of mind in less than a minute – change one small word by replacing “if” with “now”.
“What ifs” are built into our mental hardware because the human brain is designed to quickly detect threatening signals. environment and command our muscles to lift it out of there or fight off a threatening predator. In the recesses of the brain there is a watchman who is always alert for signs of danger. This is a brain structure called the amygdala fear– the trigger center, which acts like a guard that never leaves its post and is ready to react to the only hint of danger – a sound in the bushes, smell associated with a predator or a purported noise. Ancestral humans relied on this internal sensor to keep them alive and kicking to last long enough. genes to the next generation.
The brain’s thinking center, the prefrontal cortex, allows us to critically evaluate potential sources of danger and distinguish between twisted branches. a liar on our way and the snake that hides in the grass. But what happens when our thinking centers on every possible threat, on all the countless disasters that fall under the umbrella of “what if?” This can lead to inhibition in a state of fear and anxiety. Alternatively, we can think “what is now” in such a way that we focus on what we can actually do in situations where we can.
Do you have a case of “What if”?
Sam, a retired dentist, topped the what-if counter. His mind was constantly spinning “what ifs”, which made him feel anxious and helpless. He anxiety also fed on himself because he fell into a form of emotional reasoning, thinking that if he felt this anxiety, it must be because things were really out of control.
He thought for a moment before pressing it: It doesn’t feel like it. He agreed to try a mental detour by substituting “now” for “if” when faced with a problem.
“What’s Working Now” is an Action Strategy
Thoughts are for actions. When we think “what now?” we have to take action, consider alternative ways of responding to the situation. For Sam, thinking “what if now” focused his mind on what he could do instead of all the things that could go wrong. He used the old stoic wisdom that there are things we can control and things we can’t, some things are within our control and some things are not.
It’s not that we shouldn’t consider life’s suffering, but when we do, we need to shift into a “what do we do now” mindset and ask ourselves what we can do when faced with life’s challenges or uncertainties. Yes, this pain in my back could be cancer, but all I can do now is get it checked out and not spin my wheels on all the things that could go wrong. Which of these “ifs” hit close to home?
- What if it happens again?
- What if something bad happens and no one comes to help?
- What if I have something serious?
- What if I break up at this meeting tomorrow?
- What if I don’t complete this sale?
- What if I can’t sleep tonight? How will I do tomorrow?
- God, what if ______?
- What if I have a panic attack?
- What if I have a heart attack?
- What if_____?
Create a “What Now” transition
A simple mental shift from “what if” to “what now” can have a profound effect. “What to do now” is a command to action. It allows us to stop the barney flow catastrophic thinking by focusing on what we can do in the here and now instead of thinking about all the things that could go wrong, which just keeps us going in circles. So when you hear yourself thinking, “What if?”, give yourself a gentle nudge to replace the word “now” with “if.”
General Disclaimer: The content here and in other blog posts on Minute Therapist is for informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose, evaluate, or treat mental health disorders. If you are concerned about your emotional well-being or are experiencing any serious mental health issues, I encourage you to licensed mental health professional in your area for a comprehensive assessment.
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